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Jason Salyer

Interview with Jason Salyer

Jason Salyer is the student minister at First Baptist Church, Bluff City, TN. He is also a faithful prayer mentor. This interview was conducted on Thursday, December 10th, 2009.

Steve Gervasi
Good morning Jason! Let's talk about your perspective on prayer mentoring as both a student minister and prayer mentor. Where would you like to begin?

Jason Salyer
Well there are so many aspects to this thing but I think prayer mentoring is certainly one area where you want to practice what you preach. I was just thinking about the last couple of years with our student (my wife Bethany and I pray together) and how we have seen him grow and mature in his faith. Almost a year ago he actually publicly stated a call to the ministry so I really feel like I know how I need to be praying for him. We also meet each week to go through Scripture on issues of character for those in the ministry.

Steve Gervasi
Wow! So you believe it's important for the student minister to be involved as a prayer mentor right along with everyone else?

Jason Salyer
Yes absolutely! I remember asking you about that when we were first getting Shout started and I see now how critical it is to the ministry. It helps me see the perspective of the mentors and provides a good example, but most of all it's a blessing I'm glad I am not missing out on!

Steve Gervasi
Thanks for the affirmation Jason! I'm learning a lot about what it means to pray persistently and effectively as a student minister/prayer mentor as well! Okay, so tell me more about the growth you have seen in your student and the part you believe prayer has played in that.

Jason Salyer
It is really like joining them in a battle. I get to see what areas he is struggling in and pray specifically for Him to depend on God's grace through those areas. Then another issue or battle comes along and I pray for Him to grow through that as well. Looking back over the course of several months, I can see not only how God has worked in His life but how He is developing something in our student through all these things that will be used for His glory.

There's an old quote that said something to the effect of if I could hear Jesus praying in the next room for me then I would not fear a million enemies. While I'm obviously not Jesus, He has given me that responsibility to pray and I hope it gives our student that same kind of boldness to know I am praying for him.

Steve Gervasi
Jason, that is a very insightful perspective... I mean that prayer is like joining your student in the battle! It makes me think of the older generation represented by Moses lifting his hands and staff to God while the younger generation was battling against the Amalekites below!

Jason Salyer
Exactly. God was showing us something there. As a student pastor I've also encouraged the church as a whole to be the supporters (Aaron and Hur) holding up the hands of Moses. It has to be a joint effort from everyone in the body of Christ.

What a humbling and amazing responsibility to know that the battle was not won by their strength and abilities but by the intercession provided for them!

Steve Gervasi
Amen! And with your above quote in mind, we are joining Jesus before the throne where He ever lives to make intercession for us! And, as you say, it is humbling and sobering to think the battle this generation is fighting against the culture, at its most basic level, will be won or lost depending upon the prayer support we as adults give to them!

Jason Salyer
I think, in the midst of the church vs culture battle, the priority of prayer can sometimes get lost. Don't get me wrong, we need to speak to issues in the culture and offer hope in the gospel to everyone. But we also need to realize that real change is only going to happen through this next generation and we shouldn't spend more effort trying to shape a "Christian subculture" than we do praying for these students to be transformed by the power of the Spirit and, in turn, to change their world. I think that's what we see Jesus praying for His disciples as well, that they wouldn't be taken out of the world but that they would endure and be found faithful.

Steve Gervasi
Jason, it is such an encouragement to have a brother like you who sees things so clearly. If the adult generation, student ministers and pastors across this land could grasp the concept of where the battle is won and lost, we would devote ourselves to prayer along with the ministry of the word like the early church did!

Thanks so much for your time. One last thought, if you could give one piece of advice to prayer mentors and one piece of advice to fellow student ministers about prayer mentoring, what would that be?

Jason Salyer
To prayer mentors: I would encourage them to keep in mind that prayer is not unlike many other areas of the Christian life in that it comes down to faithfulness and endurance. Prayer is powerful. We know that. But so often we can get discouraged when we don't see immediate results the way we want them to be. Jesus is joining us in this prayer and intercession and He was even praying for His followers when they weren't acting like His followers. He has a purpose and a plan we just have to join Him in that.

To student pastors: I would say, “fan the flame”. In student ministry we are constantly evaluated based on the many outward things we think people want to see and we can forget we will ultimately be "evaluated" by our obedience to what God has called us to do when we stand before Him. Remember that, and encourage your congregation to keep that fire burning because we know God is up to something.

Steve Gervasi
Advice that goes right to the heart! Thanks Jason! It's been a pleasure. Now I'm off to middle school lunch! Love ya man!

Jason Salyer
Love you too bro! Thanks for the chat, always encouraging to talk with you!

Marian Conant

Interview with Marian Conant

The following is an interview conducted by Steve Gervasi with prayer mentor Marian Conant regarding her prayer mentoring experience with her student Timi Lynn:

STEVE-- Marian, thanks for your willingness to share your prayer mentoring experience. Let's start by talking about that situation where God laid it on your heart to pray for Timi's grandmother.

MARIAN-- Well, I didn't know much about Timi, but I was praying for her. And I would have a thought come to me out of the blue to pray for her grandmother. I wasn't sure if she even had a grandmother, but I prayed anyway. I felt impressed to pray for her health and safety. This continued for a couple of weeks. Then one day I ran into our church’s shout coordinator, Beth Harlow, after church and asked her if she knew much about Timi and if she had any grandparents. Beth knows her step mother Pam. And she knew that Timi spends a week with her Mom and then a week with her Dad as a regular schedule so that she can have quality time with her father. I asked if she would contact Pam and see if it was ok to write to her there and see if Timi was ok as I had not seen her in church for a while. Beth spoke with Pam and emailed me with the address, it was Beth who let me know that Pam's mother was in Honduras and due to the trouble and unrest there needed to get safely out of the country. Isn't GOD good? He will even impress strangers to pray for each other!

STEVE-- Yes! Wow, that’s what God can do when we follow the promptings of the Spirit. So, did you ever get to write Timi?

MARIAN-- Yes, I send her the cards you send me, and notes from time to time and e-cards from Dayspring. But, I really appreciated the Shout together meeting we had recently.

STEVE-- Yes, you mentioned your Shout Together experience, tell me about that again.

MARIAN-- It was very easy to learn about each other and to share our own salvation stories. I was so happy to hear that Timi had given her heart and life to JESUS CHRIST while at YEC. She did not attend chuch at all and one of her friends at Fairfield invited her to YEC

STEVE-- So, when you guys discussed the question about what you are doing now to grow spiritually, what was it she said and how did you respond?

MARIAN--For the first time, I felt like Timi and I were really connecting. Thank you for following the LORD in this prayer ministry. Back to your question...I asked Timi what she did in her everyday life to help herself grow spiritually. She related that church was the only thing that she does. So that gave me the information to know what and how to pray for her. WOW! It is sooo important to have people praying for our kids! I told her that on my part that I love to worship the LORD, and that reading the Word is very important and prayer, (something like that anyway, don't remember exactly what I said).

STEVE-- That is soooo extremely cool! Not only did she honestly open up to you, you connected at a deeper level, were able to mentor her a little and now know how to pray for her better!!!! One last question: What advice or encouragement would you give to your fellow prayer mentors?

MARIAN—Pray even if you don't know your student yet. I have Timi's card in my kitchen window, (where I spend a lot of time washing dishes the old fashioned way lol) on the borders I have some prayer suggestions " feel loved and connected, to love and follow Jesus, safety and health, school- friends, grades, cheerleading, pure relationships, freedom from fear, powerful faith, peace and love in all family relationships, quality time with her Dad, grow in grace and knowledge, stand strong against temptation, stay in church, enjoy life, accept herself and have healthy self esteem, read the WORD daily and pray, to know the Truth!" Do I pray all this every day? Not yet, but GOD has answered some of my prayers already...High School was a smooth transition :),  grades are great, she's on the cheerleading squad, having quality time with Dad... I'm looking forward to when she tells me, yeah, I'm reading the Bible a lot now :) . GOD is GOOD and I am not, there is nothing good in me but Jesus, Blessed and Holy and Wonderful is HE! Thanks Brother Steve

STEVE-- Thank you Marian! You have encouraged me! I am blessed to have you as a sister and ministry partner! I'm praying for you and your family. Nite!

David & Carrie

David & Carrie 10-13-09


Steve,

We hope and pray that everything is going well for you. The power of prayer is so awesome and so needed. Your program has inspired us to a level of daily prayer that I don’t think we would have without you. Thanks! Carrie & David


David and Carrie Dhanarajan serve in student ministry at Mt. Wesley Akin Nazarene Church in Santa Fe, TN. They have been involved in the Shout ministry for nearly 4 years now.

How Should I Answer Mrs. Conley?

9/22/2009 9:28 PM
I recently received a letter from one of our faithful prayer mentors who to me is such a wonderful example of prayer mentoring to us all. My heart was touched by her words. But it seems she is feeling less sure of her effectiveness as a prayer mentor and perhaps incapable as she grows older. I have edited her letter somewhat and have changed the names to conceal identities.

But I was wondering if you could help me know how to respond to "Mrs. Sarah Conley"? Please post a comment below.


To: Steve Gervasi                                                                                                                September 11, 2009

Hi my name is Sarah Conley. I have enjoyed being a part of this ministry since October of 2007. I have prayed very often for Megan Smith, the student assigned to me on our church’s Shout Sunday. I have sent her notes of encouragement, birthday cards and presents at various times. Also, I wrote asking to meet her before Sunday School one week and attended a Shout Together event our church hosted hoping to meet her. So far I have not had the opportunity to meet her, although I did get one short note from her last September.

I am 75 years old and am becoming somewhat limited in my ability to get around. I use a walker, which I love. I have tremors which is a challenge. I do not use the computer but I still do cross-stich sowing.

I am wondering if you should give Megan to someone else?

God Bless You,

Mrs. Sarah Conley


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Prayer Mentors Sid & Norma Yates

Sid & Norma Yates 8-31-09

My husband and I met our student Ashley for the first time 3 weeks ago at a Shout Sunday luncheon at church.

With a difficult family situation, relocation, telephone change, and other factors, she had not responded to our attempts to communi­cate. We continued to pray for a name and a picture on a card and trusted the Lord to meet her needs. I sent cards and notes for spe­cial occasions, whether she received them or not, and hoped she would reply sometime.

What a joyous occa­sion to meet her in person and what a dif­ference it makes in our prayers! We felt drawn to her and liked her shy, sweet smile immedi­ately.

She responded to us warmly, and openly shared several prayer requests and concerns, among them family concerns, a job, transpor­tation, finances to meet graduation needs, deci­sions, etc.

We are unable to meet her every need, but we know The One who can, and we continue to intercede to Him on her behalf.  - Sid & Norma Yates

Molly & Gracie

Mollie & Gracie 7-24-09

Mollie’s Perspective: (Mollie Chessor)
When I found out I was matched with Gracie as my Shout student, I was excited because I have known Gracie since she was about ten years old and so I felt like God had purposely put us together.  I have lots of fresh memories of what high school is like. Because of that I want to connect with Gracie to be an encouragement and a good role model for her as she now enters into her high school years.

Gracie actually took the first step in our relationship. She wrote me asking if we could write once a month. So we started writing back and forth. As our relationship develops, I just want her to know that if there is no one else to talk with, I will be there for her to let her feelings out.

One of the ways Gracie expresses her feelings is through poetry. She really has a way with words. One Wednesday night after youth group she came to the room where I was teaching the 3 and 4 year olds to share some of her poetry with me. I felt privileged that Gracie would open up to me like that.

A few weeks ago my mom, who was Gracie’s former GA teacher, and I took her to the Farmhouse Restaurant on our town square for her birthday. I just wanted to do something for Gracie that would encourage her and make her feel special about herself. So we ate lunch and cake, laughed and shared. Then I gave her a necklace inscribed with the word “Potential.”  On the card that came with the necklace were the words: The Lotus flower is an ancient symbol of one’s true potential. Its inner beauty is revealed as its petals open, just as one’s hidden potential is fulfilled over time. Wear it as a symbol of the potential that lives within you.

Gracie has told me on more than one occasion that she can feel my prayers. It’s a blessing to know that I’m on her mind as she is mine.

I find myself praying for Gracie mostly at night and in the morning but then there are also those times when God brings her to mind during the day; when He does I stop and lift a prayer for her.

I pray that Gracie will find happiness in the Lord, that she will trust him for everything and find confidence in Him. I pray as she enters and progresses through high school that the Lord will give her strength and that she will learn to abide in Him. Young ladies want to look pretty and it’s a hard thing to trust God with in high school. So, I pray that God will give her security and contentment in Him and not in guys or the other places teens often turn to for acceptance.

Quotes from Gracie’s letters to Mollie:
"This whole prayer mentor thing gives me a sense of security."
"I'm happy that you're my prayer mentor, because I feel that I can relate to you in ways"
"I wanted to say thank you for taking me out to lunch and getting me the "Potential" necklace.  I wear it all the time.  I rarely ever take it off."
"I sincerely appreciate your prayers.  I can feel them working through God each and everyday.  I am thankful for your prayers."
"I am so thankful for your prayers along with the others.  There is really no way for me to explain how much they can change a life. I thank you for praying."
"I feel God and hear him telling me that everything is going to work and we will make it through it all."


Gracie’s Perspective: (Gracie McClearen)
I was very excited when I found out that Mollie was my Prayer Mentor. She's very easy for me to relate to. Going into high school this coming up August I'm very glad that I will have her to ask about her high school experiences. That way she can guide me through the hard times. But I feel so blessed having Mollie as my Mentor, and I have told her plenty of times that I can feel her prayers throughout each and every day. I can feel God's hands reaching out and carrying me through the day because of her prayers. I have known Mollie for a little while. I can remember being 10 and being in her mother's GA class and going over to their house and her showing us all of her trophies and sashes. I highly respect her and I think highly of her in every way. She's my role model to make it through high school and on through my future college years. I mean she is very successful with her life. She has a great husband and a job that she loves and that is my goal for my future. Mollie and her prayers also give me a sense of security for myself. A sense that yes I can make it through the day and through the rest of the week.

Mollie and Mrs. Michelle, her mother, took me out to lunch for my birthday. We shared stories and ideas on particular things. We laughed and just hung out like friends. She gave me the most amazing gift that anyone has ever given me. She gave me a necklace that had a lotus flower and one single word engraved in it..."Potential". That necklace just made me feel like, "Yeah I do have potential. I can do this". A lotus flower symbolizes "potential" and "inner beauty". That made me feel a lot more secure about myself. It made me more secure because I pick out every single flaw about myself I can find. I don't have the perfect body. My face isn't as beautiful as I would like. My Freckles are disgusting. But my relationship with Mollie through God's wonders is extremely strong. We have a very close and strong bond….

I am so thankful for Mollie and this whole "Here's My Shout" thing. You just don't realize how much someone's prayers and thoughts help until you know that so and so is praying for you every day.

Quotes from Mollie’s letters to Gracie:
"Just remember God is always there, and he has a plan for you".
"Take Life's challenges and use them for the good".
"You are a bright and beautiful girl; you will succeed in life".

Come Along With Me--A Poem by Gracie McClearen
Come along with me to his kingdom.
A kingdom where everything is okay.
Come and follow me to worship in his presence.
In his presence, all the suffering goes away.

Come Along with me to the perfect world.
A world where we can worship as one.
This world, this kingdom, it’s our escape.

Its our escape, Our hiding place.
A place to hide from all the tears.

A getaway from the wear and tear of these years.
So I say Take me away.
Take me away with you to his kingdom forever.


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